In the same study, Neville explains that versatility is another big draw for gay male porn: In gay porn, for one reason or another, both partners appear to be equally desiring of each other and consenting to their situation in the adult film industry. As a result, part of me feels uncomfortable watching these girls perform wild sex acts and acrobatics that to my knowledge aren’t possible for the average woman to perform.įurthermore, perhaps it’s just bad acting, but most heteronormative and lesbian porn features women who are very unconvincing in acting out an important part of the female sexual experience – desire – and often appear to be faking excitement, if not totally overdoing it. I’ve yet to see or hear of a porno made for an audience of women (except Fifty Shades, Magic Mike, and The Young and the Restless, duh). This seems plausible to me for a couple of reasons. It can be easy to get carried away with thinking about the actors as themselves, and their personal stories, instead of suspending disbelief and enjoying the portrayal of them as characters in an adult film. It’s possible that women are unable to enjoy heteronormative porn because the power dynamics often don’t appear to be equal. In her book Girls Who Like Boys Who Like Boys, sexuality researcher Lucy Neville published a surprising finding from her studies: a third of the people watching Pornhub’s gay male porn are women. Male gay Porn Seems More Consensual Than Heteronormative Porn As it turns out, there are a multitude of possible reasons why many women, sexual orientation aside, find male-on-male pornography enjoyable to watch. So I did a little research to get to the bottom of it. Some part of me has always been a little curious about this part of myself, and it has made my sexual-identification journey a tad confusing. Having not discovered my sexuality until later in life, after moving into my own space with ample room and time for masturbatory experiences, I was surprised to discover just how fired up I get seeing some dude I’d shove out of my way on the street to get a better look at my first wife’s booty going at it. Porn and masturbation did not factor into my life until much later, likely due to the fear of one of my parents bursting into my room unannounced at any moment in time because god forbid anyone have a closed door. Perhaps because I grew up in an immigrant household where internet privileges were sparse at best – or perhaps because privacy was even harder to come by – I did not grow up watching porn.
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There is a phenomenon in the lesbian community that many of us experience but few of us can explain: we are very, very turned on by two dudes banging.